When it comes to marriage, I have an idea of what I want mine to be. Not of what I want mine to look like, but what I want it to actually be. It won’t be easy. Not for me and not for him, but I do know that for starters, we won’t get married based on the fact that we had no other choice.
I don’t want a man that feels like he has no choice but to marry me. I want a man that wants that to be his only choice. I don’t want a marriage out of obligation. I want a marriage out of desire. No fear that either one of us is going anywhere. Just a loving desire to stay.
If you marry me because you don’t want to lose me, what’s going to keep me there during the marriage?
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